This is a good thought, but so not in my realm of reality or ever will be. I am a mom who loves my kids and tries really hard to love them, but I do fall short. This just makes moms who yell feel bad and I don't think that is right.
I want my kids to fail. That probably isn’t at the top of your list for your kids, but it should be. Failure is one of the most important experiences they will ever have. The road to success is paved with failure because failure teaches us how to succeed.