Do not wait by the phone for his call...you are worth his attention, and he is being rude and disrespectful to you if he just calls when he feels like it, expecting you to be doing nothing but waiting for him. Do not date for years on end expecting a proposal either...if you are ready and he isn't, move on.
its starts from you, so believe what I know... you are amazing! After all I know you best and I see what you may not, so until you see it too, let me give you the words of encouragement you need, the hand to hold, and the shoulder to lean on! I love you both!