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seriously...if i said "yes" as often as i can....my kids would never behave.... And the last time i "surprised" them by jumping out of their closet after they had gone to bed ...well....they pee'd all over and then i started "yelling". This list did not work so well for me.
This is basically what we did with j and it was awesome. Saving to refer back to with A soon!