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Forget all the psycho-babel-bullcrap; deep down your heart's love for someone is real. But Never again will I ever allow others to have me think I am somehow codependent. Mourn it, let it go, move on, and be wiser for the next journey...never ever be confused again....
Guy P: "Well Joseph is back he had a great time. He said that he asked Gabby if she had heard anything from you or if she had talked to you and she said no, she said that you just kinda stopped e-mailing her. Now that isn't what you told me. So somthing is going on here!" ...may I ask what the heck happened? I think something is going on here, too!
My philosophy -since the selfishness people are capable of can be overwhelming stick to this and you'll never be at their level...
True story. One morning at the beginning of June I woke up stressed and anxious. All of a sudden calm washed over me when I was hit by a thought. I have a choice of worrying or doing everything I can to take care of the things I can control and let life (or God) take care of the rest. This has been the most productive time of my life, also the happiest.
People seriously need to fucking learn this. Tired of seeing fake couples that use each other for whatever reason: money, security.. whatever! STOP using people and being so desperate to have a partner. When its meant to happen, it'll happen.. Quit wasting someone elses time in finding their real partner and taking them for granted. I CANT.