My actual thought when I first saw my husband, "Great! Another loser who likes my sister..." For real! That's really really what I thought! Who knew!? haha! Almost 3 years of marriage and one baby later, I'm so glad I didn't let my first impression stick!
Do not let your relationship turn into one person only being dominant/submissive-share each role, it will turn into an unhealthy relationship otherwise. Use "I see it differently" in difficult relationships.