This is one of the most painful myths for couples to hear. First it suggests that adoption is only a means to an end, not an happy and successful end in itself. Second, it is simply not true. Studies reveal that the rate for achieving pregnancy after adopting is the same as for those who do not adopt.
What not to say to an infertile. I get soooooo tired of people offering their children because they think it will change my mind about being a mom. Keep offering and one of these days I'm literally going to take your child and never give it back.
Please do not tell me that it took you three months to get pregnant and that you were so worried that you may never be able to have children but thank goodness you went on a vacation/bought a house/stopped trying because then you got preggers! Don't tell me that story and try to relate. Because I'll hit you. Really hard. With a bat.