This is not true. You may be infatuated with these cities or people, but you don't love them, and if you think you do, then you are obviously unaware of the definition of love or have simply not experienced it.
Get over yourself. I'm awesome, you suck. I work hard, you're lazy. Your daddy buys you all your shit, my dad taught me the value of earning money and job searching. Never had anything handed to me. Enjoy the lies your man tells you to make you feel better. Can't trust him ;)