Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you. -Ephesians 4:31-32 I also believe some things need to be talked thorough too. Forgiveness is aided with understanding and ownership too. Must we not confess our sins to ask for forgiveness?
I not sure if if it will ever make perfect sense, but I will trust God and I will still laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, walk in grace, refuse to be a dumping board for other's people's drama/junk, and remind myself that everything in my life is part of God's perfect plan. : )