Keep going. That pain you feel? That's fear melting away. Like wax off a candle. That's weakness washing out of your pores like a monsoon. That's the old you being shed away like dead skin. That's the new you, rising out of the ashes of your former self.
Everything in life is a lesson. Learn and grow from them and move on to become a better person. NEVER allow bitterness to creep into your life. Practice forgiveness and move on to better and bigger things instead..but never forget the lesson it taught .