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I've said this more times than I can count. To get out of your own sadness, put your focus on someone else and help them.
Ain't it the truth!! Always forgive yourself for being ignorant of rights and wrongs. We all make mistakes. If God doesn't hold it against you, then you shouldn't live in shame, holding it against yourself. That's not what was intended for our lives. What we should feel and enjoy about life is describe fairly well in Ecclesiastes.
A quote I think fits Ophelia's view on Hamlet very well. Hamlet changes from what Ophelia believed to be a man who loved her into someone who has lost his mind who she must no longer love. He claims their relationship was a lie, and then tells Ophelia to "get thee to a nunnery" and "trust no man", letting her know she should stop believing in him, even if it hurts.
its starts from you, so believe what I know... you are amazing! After all I know you best and I see what you may not, so until you see it too, let me give you the words of encouragement you need, the hand to hold, and the shoulder to lean on! I love you both!