In our house. only hugs, smiles and warm fuzzy feelings are allowed. (remember that little book - all I ever needed to know I learned in Kindergarten =- yeah that is what my baby is learning now -warm fuzzy vs cold prickly).
the only way to succeed is to not worry about what anyone else is doing. free your mind, live your life for yourself, get rid of everyone's expectations what you should or should not do.let go and live for yourself and your own goals.