Sometimes, people don't change and you have to figure out if you should move on. There are many reasons for a person to hold on tight to a memories and it usually involves an unresolved part of that memory. There will always be past memories of important and significant events in your life. If they interfere in your life or stop you from doing things then they should be addressed. Inspiration, Quotes, People Changing, Truths, So True, Well Said, Memories, Living, True Stories
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Yes! - When I am lying in bed drifting in thought, I will think of a really creative idea or think of something very poignant I want to write. I keep a notebook in the nightstand just for these occasions, so I can capture the thought before I forget. :)
Forgiveness is a decision. We decide to cut off the bitter root and plant a seed of love. We cannot blame ourselves if it does not grow; sometimes the other party has poisoned the soil too much. But we must keep the bitter roots cut and plant more and more seeds of love. Forgiveness begins when we make that choice; long before we see the results.
So true. I remember a day when my heart was broken and my little girl who was 4 at the time jumped into my arms and said "you are my best friend mommy." My sad tears became happy tears.