I always thought God was in the business of restoring marriages and making all things new?Deuteronomy 30:3. "God, your God, will restore everything you lost; he'll have compassion on you; he'll come back and pick up the pieces from all the places where you were scattered."
Ladies, the man that you lust over is not God's plan for your life. A godly man will not lust over you, but he will pursue you. Let God work on you spiritually and emotionally. God will send him when you're ready, not lonely.