There’s a falsehood that repeatedly circulates and that fallacy is that people (be it man or woman) don’t like aggressive women. Here is how to be a strong, independent, go-getting woman that others will still want to be around.
If you want to know if someone is "real" tell them an obvious lie. A human will recognize it for what it is immediately, a cursed will not. They may look real, but they are not. Only real eyes realize real lies.