Be a leader, not a boss. You're job is to train your children in how to be good adult, good husbands and fathers, good wives and mothers. Not just good boys and girls. Be a Leader, not just the boss of your kids.
Team Player: Voted "Most Social" in school, it still holds true today. I've always loved meeting new people and have never had a problem collaborating with people of all kinds. As the saying goes, Together Everyone Achieves More :)