This is another thing I wish I woulda thought of when my kids were younger. Make Cleaning Fun For Kids With A Simple DIY Chore Chart. I'm gonna have to try this! Maybe it'll get Bobby more encouraged to do stuff around the house!
Write a letter to your child or grandchild each year and include money for grad gift. I like this idea of writing a letter, and even adding money, but I think it'd be better to go longer than a grad gift. Wedding, first home, first child?