(Revelation 20:12) . . ." And I saw the dead, the great and the small, standing before the throne, and scrolls were opened. But another scroll was opened; it is the scroll of life. The dead were judged out of those things written in the scrolls according to their deeds." See also: Rev. 20:13,14 Where it shows that death and the grave will cease to exist. Go to jw.org for more information about the wonderful future hope of those sleeping in death.
The left over stuff might bring some lover joy. When you fall apart and try to fix yourself up parts are left for others to find. Your love might be held tight and away but let that someone see it. Keep an open eye.