"A word of warning to all those who have sought and found the truth. When others post comments that attack you personally, rather than what you have to say...do not repsond in kind. Rather, choose your words carefully, always remembering that your job is to shed light, not childish and crude insults. The goal is too important for the ways of the playground."
I did for him for so long while being abused and used and cutoff emotionally... but love was not returned when "I" really needed it and deserved it...in those times the man I "thought" I had married had left the room leaving behind a self absorbed narcissist morphing into a sociopath.
when we make a change, it's so easy to interpret our unsettledness as unhappiness, and our unhappiness as a result of having made the wrong decision. our mental and emotional states fluctuate madly when we make big changes in our lives, and somedays we could tight-rope across manhattan, and other days we are too weary to clean our teeth, this is normal. this is natural. this is change. - jeanette winterson