Feeling like someone contacts you and talks to you because they feel they have to, not because they want to, really hurts. What hurts even more is realizing that just because someone means a lot to you, doesn't mean you mean a lot, or mean anything at all, to them.
This is for a particular someone who came into my life then did an about-face and walked right back out. Thank God my guard was up, you didn't hurt me, you will NEVER hurt, because you CAN'T hurt me. Only people who truly love me can hurt me. That counts you out. Peace out.