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I will not be any man's half-time...and I held that attitude when I was single. Pinner said: By waiting for the right man in the right time I found the love of my life and it proves the saying that "anything worth having is worth waiting for."
What I actually needed was for someone to tell me that it hurt because it mattered. I have found this very useful to think about over the years, and I find that it is a lot easier and more bearable to be sad when aren’t constantly berating yourself for being sad.