Wow is really how desperate and low standards have gotten today?! Ridiculous. And this is going on my "My Thoughts Exactly" board not because of the actual pin, but because of my comment. Girls have some self respect, and confidence for crying out loud.
Life is not fair.... but Jesus is so let Him make all of your decisions. Most things we suffer in life sometimes we bring on ourselves as a result of bad choices. Put God first and choose the right thing. You will suffer less in life.
Do not let your relationship turn into one person only being dominant/submissive-share each role, it will turn into an unhealthy relationship otherwise. Use "I see it differently" in difficult relationships.