Serving The Lord is different to serving others. When we serve others with no thought for doing the Lord's Will, we may finish up in servitude to others' selfish demands. Answers to prayer come often while serving The Lord in His Way.
Trust God, for he knows what is right. (except, i have a man who thinks he deserves it, and honestly, he does not deserve it) so perhaps God will place my heart in the hands of a man who truly deserves it!