It is what we make of it - In this life we are all just walking up the mountain and we can sing as we climb or we can complain about our sore feet. Whichever we choose, we still gotta do the hike. I decided a long time ago singing made a lot more sense.
Kurt Vonnegut: Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place.
Heres an idea: have people write their favorite song lyric in a guest book with name of song and artist if known and then sign their name. Always has been my fave Elton John song! ( Ellie Goulding song too)