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If it's not happening in the present moment or there is nothing you can do about it right now, it's not a problem, it's your imagination running amok and taking away your happiness. -sometimes, this is all i need to hear, nothing more, nothing less.
In my life I have only found one other human that I can say this about. She has been my Wife for 43+ years. Yet, I have had nine dogs in my life (one my K-9 Partner) who fit this description to a "T". You figure it out, I just don't care since I am happy. One Wife = Nine Dogs sounds like a great radio to me.