Exactly. I hate when people try to diminish someone else's feelings because they or someone else has had it worse. Like this is not about you or other people. Let someone feel they way they want to feel.
Who you are is determined by what you make of each situation. Face each challenge when it comes to you, and do not worry about where you are going. Accept that things happen, and you won't always know why. Live each day like you'll die tomorrow.