"When faced with two choices, simply toss a coin. It works not because it settles the question for you, but because in that brief moment when the coin is in the air, you suddenly know what you are hoping for." Grey's Anatomy quotes
This is true. You have to really decide, and commit to get to what you want. If you're not succeeding, you need to figure out why it's not your priority because if you make if your priority YOU WILL succeed. FACT.