Either something is the way you want it to be now or its not. Hanging on and hoping it will change into what you want is trying to change someone.Thats not love. I'm actively choosing to swim for my destination, meet my truth face to face, and not drown.
I swear this is an Allison Hendrix quote from Orphan Black. (Or it should be!) - " I'm having fruit salad for dinner. Okay, it's mainly grapes. Okay, all grapes. Fermented grapes. I'm having wine for dinner! ... and you know what else? ... I hate yoga! "