Saving people is a really hard task - it won't always work. But what you can do is love them, make them feel special and let them know there's someone who cares about them and that their life is worth living.
Do you know how many of the few people that know about my infertility have offered me a hug??? Zero!!!! Even when I'm hiding out in another room bawling my eyes out. Not a single one of them has showed any care or compassion!!!