A girl said to me once, "You shouldn't have gotten the job, they should have offered it to me." My response: "Well did you ask for it? No? Well, you don't get what you don't take." Hustle.
-Eleanor Roosevelt, also quoted by "Joe" from Princess Diaries to Mia, the princess-to-be. I watched that movie dozens of times when I was a little girl, and knew the words he said, but I never understood their power until I was faced with challenges myself.