"Do not handicap your children by making their lives easy." - Robert A. Heinlein My parents made sure that I could take care of my own, stuff wasn't handed to me. I see kids today, and worry not only for their future but for mine as well.
There r just some people who will never understand as they r not at the same level of comprehensive analysis. So being responsible of what u say is important in case there are others who are listening and/or asked for their opinion on the subject.