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There's the romantic "Need" (You complete me, My life is better with you, I couldn't imagine life without you) and the codependent "Need" (I need a man to be complete, I need to not be alone). The difference is one occurs after you've fallen in love and even though its sweet it isn't literal. the other is always there, and is often the reason people end up in bad relationships, and their own self worth depends on being with someone. I never "need" a man, but I have found the one my soul "needs"
Be with a man who: 1. Who promises to give you laugh lines when you’re old 2. Who tells you he’s proud of you on a daily basis 3. Who puts your happiness on the same level as his 4. Who uses positive superlatives when describing your relationship Who uses “when” no “if” when talking about this future and how you fit it in
He is always in my heart, forever! And no other man will ever ever ever get my whole heart because he has it and I'll never get it back. And I'm quite ready to give him the rest of my heart, what scares me is what he'll do with it....I'm scared he gave it back to me and never wants it back.