Buddha wisdom......I know some people who hold on to the dumbest things and even expect the other person they are so mad at to even know why they are mad years later. Get over yourself and get off your ass and live your own life vs trying to correct mine.
"Be sure to taste your words before you spit them out." I was guilty of this years ago, I let someone hurt me to the core and I was speaking in PAIN. I learned so much from that time in my life, it wasn't easy. I'm really proud of who I've become.
But sometimes "this love" leaves you feeling empty, and like an obligation, rather than feeling loved (i.e. loved because your the daughter, sister, etc.). Real love, for a person, means having compassion for them as well, otherwise, love is just a word.