True beauty doesn't demand attention; it is arresting merely for existing. Because it points to something (or rather Someone) beyond itself. God is the ultimate in beauty-- God IS beauty. Beauty is also accessible through human reason. Something is beautiful and/or stylish, not because "everybody has one," or because it's "fashionable," but because it makes sense.
It is in all of us to defy expectations, to go into the world and to be brave, and to want, to need, to hunger for adventures, to embrace change and chance, so that we may breathe and know what it is to be free.