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Love this idea! Consequences That Actually Work! "Forced apologies don’t teach true remorse and reconciliation... Parents can set kids up for sincere reconciliation. ...Restitution consequences encourage personal responsibility and usually end with one child feeling cared for and the other feeling caring."
great article on NATURAL CONSEQUENCES this can also work for natural rewards too, ex: you put your shoes and socks on..you get to go outside. Children learn so much more from their own experiences then you can ever teach them! It's all about providing tools and resources!