This is mean but I think everyone has at least one person in their life that if they caught fire it would take a minute or so to choose between a bucket of water or the bag of marshmallows. Or in my case choosing between water and a can of gasoline :)
I can find a boyfriend if I really want one. But I don't want just a boyfriend, I want someone who one day wants to be my husband. But, boys will be boys. He never wanted to get married anyways, he was never going to be ready..