When you look deeply into your anger, you will see that the person you call your enemy is also suffering. As soon as you see that, the capacity for accepting and having compassion for them is there. - Thich Nhat Hanh this
Making yourself a priority is not selfish it's an act of self-love. When you are real and honest it may piss some people off but frankly that's their problem. Getting to know yourself and learning to trust your intuition is so important.
To find inner peace and stillness - sit with yourself and discover what is inside. Take a moment to learn about your thoughts and your beliefs - are they truly true? "It is inner stillness that will save and transform the world.