My dad, Blair, died 3 years ago. I wish everyday that he had the chance to grow older. Many people dread about growing wrinkles, and he embraced them as it meant another day to play with his grandbabies. He was sadly denied of growing older.
Happiness is everything :) If we are not happy then we need to change something. The sad thing is that there are people who want to be unhappy and wallow in self pity. It’s ok to have a pity party once in a while but being happy is so much better.