[These are things I have heard & from other suffers of Depression. Trust me, these are things that won't evoke a positive response...] I would add: "I think you're upset that I left the house unlocked and the dog in the freezer because your MEDS must be off." My meds must need tweaking a lot then. Asshole.
A cycle of depression. It's time to stop pretending that depression, anxiety, etc are all something you can just "snap out of." You wouldn't tell a diabetic to "snap out of" a blood sugar high; you'd give them insulin. But so many people suffering from legitimate mental illnesses get dismissed or scolded by the very people they go to for help or advice.