Great for kids and adults who need help with self-soothing. Many consider their emotions as tools they can use to elicit an emotional or care-taking response out of others ... I am sad - so if you love me you should cheer me up ... I am angry - so if you love me you should let me have my way ... I am distressed - so if you love me you should love and take care of me ... This is emotional abuse. A person who is emotionally mature will self soothe and regain their composure.