"Whatever you choose, however many roads you travel, I hope that you choose not to be a lady. I hope you will find some way to break the rules and make a little trouble out there. And I also hope that you will choose to make some of that trouble on behalf of women. Above all, be the heroine of your own life. Don't be the victim." Nora Ephron, from Wellesley Commencement address, 1996
I saw this picture and it reminded me of the advice we've shared on the show - that, to be happy, we should spend our money and time on experiences, not possessions. When we spend our time doing things with our friends and family, that helps us build new memories that’ll last a lifetime. And 20 years from now, you’ll still be telling friends about a camping trip you took, but you won’t be reminiscing about the day you swiped your credit card at the mall.
..but to the point that people struggle to describe you. they can't label you. they can't just claim an organization you're in. they can't just tell what color your hair is. you are you, and when that description is a struggle for people in the best way possible, you're doing something right. and therefore this quote is allowed to be in a frame