Do not let your relationship turn into one person only being dominant/submissive-share each role, it will turn into an unhealthy relationship otherwise. Use "I see it differently" in difficult relationships.
There is a quote that I love that says "Be Weird. Be Random. Be Who You Are. Because You Never Know Who Would Love the Person You Hide." What if the person you hide is your true contribution, your gift to world? What would it take for you to unwrap that