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So many people think if it’s love, then everything should flow smoothly – no hiccups. But even the best of relationships require putting in effort – making love a daily conscious habit. John Gottman wrote about the 5 to 1 ratio of nice to nasty. Meaning? For every 1 challenging time (conflict) you need to have 5 loving gestures. You need to put in the effort of what he calls “repair.” Both people have to keep putting something into the relationship – for it to stay thriving.

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Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things…

This is what I'm realizing.... just because she treated you well in the beginning doesn't mean it will ever go back to that...

I vow to fiercely love you in all your forms, now and forever. I promise to never forget that this is a once in a lifetime love. I vow to love you, and no matter what challenges might carry us apart, we will always find a way back to each other.