"It becomes special because you have made it so." I LOVE this! Marriage is only sacred if you believe it is. It has NOTHING to do with the gender of the people getting married. it has EVERYTHING to do with their attitude toward the relationship.
50 Questions to Ask your Spouse/boyfriend on a Date Night. Pretty interesting/deep questions that don't really involve the kids and probably don't come up on a regular basis! I need to remember this for the future!