fuck people who think they are better than you. If they have to put up that front, they are probably just hiding insecurities from their past. Apparently giving and giving and giving doesn't "prove" it anymore. Time to cut them ties! Peace out bitches!!
For my daughter, when the time comes. Kisses are not a way to get to know a date, that is through meaningful conversation, and after a few dates. There is no rush. If he isn't willing to wait, you know you were saved from a guy who isn't interested in knowing your heart. You are worth so much more. Wait for the man who wants to win your heart, not just steal kisses.