“The old you, the one who has not yet decided to kick ass, is in the past. Stay present and do not, even for a second, look backward or entertain any ideas of straying from your decision.” — You are a badass by Jen Sincero
Regardless of a woman’s feelings on childbearing, the decision to have kids is hers alone, to be decided for her own reasons. And no woman should have to submit to society’s relentless questioning on the matter.
Have a baby or don't, or maybe it's not even possible for you. Don't use "baby making" to define "womanhood". You don't need a baby to live your life to the full. Do what makes you happy and don't let society tell you what to do.