Ive wanted to be a mommy since i can remember! I prayed that i could be a mommy because that has always been my goal in life and God blessed me with the greatest little girl in the whole world! I have no words for how much i love her and how much better she makes my life!!! Mommy loves you Ella :)
while I do agree with this, I believe said child(ten) will remember the feeling of being left out when say, a grandparent, buys more for the other grandchild and seems to forget the others or spends significantly less, very obviously less. That makes em feel like crap and way less important. Add in zero time spent with said child from grandparent and there ya go.