Harsh, but so so true. You don't need a immature douche, you need a real man who is mature and really loves you for you. Someone who won't play games, and is actually committed. A man who won't lie, and tells nothing but the truth.
Not always so great to notice every little thing but we can't help it! A super INFJ like me sometimes has to avert her eyes. Some things are better left unsaid (and you don't have to say it for the INFJ to hear it).