Reminded me of this quote from Wheatley: "We must engage with each other, experiment to find what works for us, and support one another as the true inventors that we are". I think that it is important to remember that we are all coming from different places and keep in mind how we can be good company. As Wheatley also says, "we can't make this journey alone-we need good companions, patience, endurance, and courage".
This is something most people would not do. They would not mend a bridge that someone else burned. Too many times this happened over a foolish argument and you lost a good friend. I say reach out to them. Mend the bridge. Put your pride away and ask God to help you forgive them, and them you. Blessings.