Wicked quote: "As someone told me lately: Everyone deserves the chance to fly. And if I'm flying solo, At least I'm flying free." Do read the book, Wicked, before seeing the play. It's usually good advice for any book made into a movie.
Exactly if you don't know how others feel or what they truly want in their life don't make up shit with your small mind and big mouth saying your imagination and delusion when it's just you lying to yourself.
I think it is sad that only my children know what I mean when I say, "What's the magic word?" All their friends look at me like I'm insane. It's called manners - use them and teach them to your children.