So true. Spend the time on the inside, and the outside will always look a whole lot better. Meaning my marriage takes work but to have something great you have to give all you have, cause i love being with my wife and I would like to stay married to her. Raising my girls is hard work but that are worth every second of it. Family is precious. To keep it, you better work and keep on working cause, you ever let up. Look out!